DO YOU ADVISE PARENTS TO BE VERY CAREFUL AND STRICT IN PRESENCE OF CHILDREN?
No, for instance those maturing young children who have bath with their mother or father and who see their parents hugging and kissing each others are much less likely to feel inhibited about their own bodies and feelings than those children whose parents behaviour instil the idea that sex is somehow dirty and shameful.
How parents should react knowing about masturbation of their child?
In general parents who discover their child masturbating get worried, embarassed and disapproving. If these views are openly expressed child will revolt and practice in privacy keeping the frequency of mastrubation the same. Hence parents taking in confidence should try to make them understand about the plus and minus points of involving in masturbation.
What is sexual rivalry between parent and child?Male child may feel jealous of his father because mother loves husband more and does not give sufficient attention to the child. Sometimes it may take the form of competition. This usually expresses itself as an attempt by the young child to prove that he or she loves the parent more than his rival does. A girl will try to look more beautiful than her mother and will help father in day to day work. Male child may go out of way to help his mummy in kitchen to gain her favour. Upto some extent it is natural and children should be made to understand that parents also have a right to care for each other.
When vagina is so small then how child comes out through it?Vagina is a flexible stretchy passage way about 3-5 inches long. During sexual arousal the vagina widens and lengthens by about two inches. If need arises during delivery it opens to a diameter of about five inches to accomodate the child.*98\301\2*
