MAKE SEX A PRIORITY
Lack of time is another major factor in this scenario. Although William clearly views sex as something of great importance, he often plans it as literally the last thing to do on a busy, event-filled day. He doesn’t give his sexual relationship time when he is well rested, free of tension, relaxed. If William had decided to wait until Saturday morning instead of late Friday night, he would have been more relaxed, more rested and possibly found that he had no problem.
It’s important to take time out for sex. Sex therapists tell people to allocate one hour per day to sensually caressing, massaging and relating to one’s partner. But you don’t have to pay a therapist to benefit from this advice and to reap the pleasurable results.
William has problems making love with his wife because he focuses on making his penis do what he wants rather than enjoying being close to Sharon. Forced erection is a false notion. Although he caresses and cuddles her, he doesn’t concentrate on her touch, the smell of her hair, the taste of her lips and the sight of her body. Instead, he is preoccupied with whether his penis will “work.” That’s like eating dinner and being involved with the knife and fork, rather than the gourmet feast before you. What a waste.
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